I get emails from women every day telling me that even when things are generally going well in their relationship, they still find themselves feeling awkward, overthinking things, and analyzing their man’s every move at times, which seems to be just the thing. contrary to bring it. close, actually pushes man further on a very deep subconscious level.
Women always ask me if men know when we analyze their words and actions or try to “figure out” them, and they want to know how to stop so they can feel normal again.
I think men can absolutely tell when we are too focused on them because it manifests in our vibe. Whether it’s the tone of our voice or the energy behind how we respond to text messages, men are extremely sensitive to this and unconsciously perceive it.
Analyzing everything a man says or does (or does NOT say or does) is MENTALLY leaning forward – and what you want to do instead is lean back and inspire him to reach out to YOU.
That is what will create a deep attraction for a man, since men value why they have to work, as we do!
If you have a hard time staying “cool” Because you’re overthinking things or trying to understand a man, think about what an extremely confident woman would do and feel in this situation – the kind of woman men go crazy over.
That type of woman would not care so much what he says, does or does not do, since her attention would be on her own life, she would not even be thinking about a man who is not right in front of her. In her mind, it is up to the man to impress and win her over.
Taking your focus completely off a man is what create the space for him to come to you.
If a man’s energy is not coming to you, what you want to do is take your energy out of it. To do that, you will have to find other things to do that completely absorb you and occupy your time, energy, and attention.
See if you can “channel” that super confident woman inside of you when you realize that you are concentrating too much on a man. This will make you incredibly attractive to him. and make him instinctively want more TOWARDS you. I know you have that energy somewhere inside of you because that’s what probably attracted him (and other men) in the first place!
