I often write about how to influence the gender of the baby you are trying to conceive. One of the questions that I get asked quite often is some variation of the following: “Will having an orgasm during conception increase the chances that a boy or girl will be babies?” or “Will having an orgasm help or harm my ability to get pregnant?” I will answer these questions in the next article.
The fluids of an orgasm do not damage, kill or compromise sperm: Sometimes people write to me and tell me that they are afraid that an orgasm will somehow affect, compromise, or destroy male sperm. It really is not so. Fortunately, healthy sperm from a healthy man is stronger than that. However, what it does do is change or affect the acidity of the vagina. And, depending on the sex of the baby you want to conceive, this can be good or bad.
Why having an orgasm can lower your chances of conceiving a girl (and increase your chances of having a boy): If you want a girl, you need your vagina / reproductive tract to be very acidic and have the highest PH you can handle. The reason for this is that the Y sperm that you give to male babies is very vulnerable in this type of environment. They cannot survive this way for long.
But having an orgasm produces fluids that can lower your PH. So if you want a girl, you will want to avoid this. (I know, this is not fun). But, you really just need to avoid this or hold back on the days when you are trying to conceive. The effects of the liquid are not permanent or long-lasting. It’s okay to ignore this at other times during the month.
Female ejaculation during conception favors a boy, but is often not enough to guarantee its success: As I said earlier, female ejaculate fluid alkalizes the vagina. This is what you want if you are trying to make a boy baby, so there is no need to hold back. However, this alone is often not enough to get your PH lower. It is true that it is an easy thing you can do to get off. It costs nothing or requires special equipment. However, if you’re starting out with an acidic body, it often won’t make enough of a dent in your bottom line.
How do I know who I am ?: How do you know where you stand? You can test its acidity or alkalinity using pH test strips. These are not very expensive and are quite easy to find. This will tell you if your bias towards a high or low PH. Whether you want to go low or high depends on the gender you want (again, high for a girl and low for a boy).
If you don’t get the reading you were hoping for, that’s really fine. You can change this by taking douches and / or altering the foods you eat for a short time. Everything you eat is acidic or alkaline. Consuming different foods will also affect the PH of your body.
As your diet or douches change, you can retest and see how these changes have affected you. This also allows you to see what things are giving you the best and easiest results in terms of PH. You will also need to analyze the timing of your conception depending on when you ovulate and also use the correct sexual positions, to name just a few more things.
