If you are reading this and it fits the situation, then the topic is already a consideration in your mind.
You may have read something on the subject, talked to a friend who recently went through the experience, and heard about it at school. We hope we can help you here, with a short guide. Is for you.
First of all, you must feel that it is the right thing to do. He should NOT feel pressured to do so, or the experience will not bring him the pleasure and fond memories he expects and deserves. You are in charge of your life and your body. You really should feel ready for it.
If you have been masturbating, you probably had a clitoral orgasm, then you know what is possible in terms of feelings. You must also know your own anatomy.
You know that you have outer lips that cover the vulva and inner lips that are very flexible. If your hymen is intact, you’re also going to tear it, with the accompanying sensations and bleeding. To find out.
On the second consideration, don’t have sex if you have had too much alcohol. You can get drunk and lose much of your judgment even after one drink.
The third consideration is to INSIST on condom use with your partner. The reasons for this are well known, and there is certainly no excuse not to use it. You must be protected. This is a health concern, a very good way to prevent conception, and generally a good idea as it will help slow your partner down by desensitizing him a bit.
So to start.
You can’t have too much foreplay. This should take the form of mutual kissing, erotic massages, exploring each other’s bodies, seeing where each of you is sensitive and has hot spots. Do not rush. It will be over soon enough as it is.
As long as you have foreplay, your uterus will produce the important moisture that is required. Trust us, the wetter the better. You can’t be too wet for the first time. If you’re a bit adventurous, ask your partner to perform cunnilingus on you, and if you can, give your partner fellatio. These are wonderful signs of showing affection.
Enter the.
Make sure after your foreplay (and maybe fellatio) that you put on a condom if you haven’t already. The partner can take the first step to go directly to the standard missionary position. bad idea. It’s the worst position to lose your virginity. You’re not in control, and it will be more painful and you can’t do anything but stand there and take it.
Instead, try the girl in the top position. Here you are in control. Her vagina has never had anything in it before (like a penis) and she must slowly accommodate it…and she will.
If you are losing your hymen, it is you who determines the speed and pressure with which it occurs. You won’t suffer, and if you’re not wet enough yet, you can apply some water-based vaginal lubricant (such as KY). The deed is soon done, and you can start pushing.
At first, make your partner move without thrusting, simply by applying pressure while fully inserted into your vagina. As it begins to feel natural, you can begin to push yourself.
At this point, you can switch positions (assuming your partner has lasted) and turn to your back. However, do not settle for the simple missionary position, but tilt your pelvis slightly upwards and ask your partner to hang on your arms and not lie on top of you… this thrusting will stimulate both your clitoris and your vagina. G point.
There are a lot of variables here, but lose your virginity as we suggest, and you’ll have pleasant memories in your mind instead of feeling empty or used.
