Before we see a real woman’s body for the first time, many men may have a very unrealistic idea of what the female genitalia look like. Consider most men’s first sexual exposures, and they inevitably come from the scientific texts our well-meaning parents showed us that contained bewildering drawings of private parts, or from the romanticized photoshopped photos from adult magazines.
The problem with this type of education is that many of us believe that these are accurate images that represent every type of female body we will ever come across. We almost expect her body to have the smooth, perfect flesh that we see in these pictures. Then all of a sudden the day comes when you see a naked woman for the first time and suddenly everything seems so different you hardly know where to start. Sounds familiar? Anyway, to celebrate this diversity, we’re going to take a look at the different vagina types, labia types, and even clit types and what they mean to you and her.
What does this mean for the boys?
There are many reasons why guys should care. The main one is that the difference in morphology between different women can lead to great advantages or disadvantages when it comes to giving you an orgasm. Therefore, knowing as much as possible about the different types of vagina can help you easily determine which type your woman has. The second reason is that women can often feel very insecure about their vagina. I never realized how common it was until I asked a few women. It can become so extreme that women may even forbid their lovers from giving them oral sex or fingering them because they are secretly ashamed that their genitals are not as pretty as the others.
physical differences
The biggest morphological difference that makes a difference in their partners is the exposure of the clitoris. Some women have a clitoris (also called the clitoral gland, meaning the part you stimulate) that protrudes quite a bit from the clitoral hood (the triangle of flesh just above the clitoral glans). A more exposed clitoris is easier to stimulate and makes a guy’s foreplay significantly easier. The only problem is that it can be too sensitive, so it’s best to use more lube than you normally would. Conversely, the clitoris can sometimes be hidden by the clitoral hood. When this happens, it may be easier for him to spread his legs wider during foreplay or to press his hips against her. In extreme cases, a sex toy will help, as these can even vibrate through the clitoral hood. If she finds that nothing helps, she may want to suggest a clit pump. This device creates a pressure that enlarges the clitoris.
Many women often have inner labia that are longer than their outer ones. This creates the flower-shaped appearance that spawned centuries of horrible poetry! This shouldn’t have any major effect on oral sex, but it can cause problems during fingering, as it’s easy to accidentally push the labia minora (the ‘inner’ lips) into the vagina and this will probably cause you some discomfort.
The effects of psychological differences
I once asked a few women about this topic and was amazed at how many did not like the shape of their vulva. After that, I quickly realized that a lot of what I thought was modesty on the woman’s part was actually her nervousness about the way her genitalia looked. Since then I have made sure to tell you how beautiful every part of her body is.
Many women have a different coloration to their genitals. In fact, the pink colored vulva is comparatively rare compared to other types. Even Caucasian women experience a wide range of coloration with darker areas, particularly around the perineum and sometimes on the lips as well. Different breeds obviously also have differences.
Therefore, it is your job to make sure that she is comfortable in her body. When she’s convinced that you find everybody After she turns you on, then you’ll be most of the way to having mind-blowing orgasms together.
