Making a girl have an orgasm is like walking in the dark for you. Unfortunately, without some kind of guidance, it will never get better. You want your girl to really crave your touch. You want her to want you so much that she can’t wait to be with you.
Even if your girlfriend tells you she doesn’t care that she’s never had an orgasm (or you just know), she’s lying. The truth is that women are very sexual and need that release as much as you do. If you can’t provide it, she will resent it or find another man who can satisfy her better.
There are a few steps you can take to make your girlfriend have an orgasm:
1. Work slowly and make sure you feel everything you are doing. Working slowly will allow him to feel her and the pulses of her muscles. If you apply pressure while the vaginal area is throbbing, you will instantly offer incredible gratification.
2. Use one or two fingers to find the G-spot. By inserting your fingers into the vagina and making a “come here” motion, you will be able to feel a ribbed area. Rubbing this and pressing on this area is sure to make her orgasm.
3. By using your mouth and fingers at the same time, you have a much better chance of making her orgasm. The secret here again is to go slow and feel her cues. When she feels the time is right to go faster, go for it.
