Men looking to meet foreign women are looking to fulfill their dreams of love and romance through international dating. However, most men fear that the foreign ladies they meet are just looking to trick them into getting money or a free trip to a richer country.
These fears are exploited by the mainstream media which exaggerate and sensationalize stories of ill-fated foreign love affairs in order to sell more newspaper and television advertising space.
How to avoid the dangers of international dating
In reality, the danger of fraud is not as monstrous as the news makes it out to be, nor is it difficult to detect and avoid.
Jumping the traps and dodging the dangers of international dating is simple and just a matter of common sense. Over ninety-five percent (95%) of foreign women seeking to date and marry men from other countries are honest women with sincere intentions; they are looking for love, friendship and affection just like boys.
Ongoing fraud investigations show that many of the cases initially thought to have been masterminded by foreign women are run by men posing as women. Many of the scams actually operate from within the US, where the scammers pose as women living in a foreign country. Beating these crooks at their own game just requires a touch of logic and good judgment.
There is a hard and fast rule that is guaranteed to protect your heart and your money one hundred percent (100%) of the time you use it. The rule is, never send him money. The reason for this may seem too simple to believe, but it is the absolute reality.
A real woman from any country is too proud to ask for financial support from a man she only knows through the Internet or postal letters and phone calls. No matter the reason, a lady who takes care of you won’t ask you to help her with a phone bill, internet payment, groceries, or to cover the medical expenses of a sick or dying relative when she hasn’t been with you.
She will not ask you to pay for her visa or plane ticket to come see you until you have traveled to see her first. If she is making advances or asking for financial support before you meet her, it is highly recommended that you let her go.
If you contact a woman online who agrees to marry you before you meet her face to face, stay away from her. Alien women are passionate and affectionate but they are not Martians from outer space.
They don’t fall in love with men they’ve never kissed, they don’t ask for money from guys they just met, and they don’t travel thousands of miles to visit someone who has never visited them.
If you notice something strange or out of place, mark it as a warning sign. When she has enough warning signs, it’s time to get away from her. And no matter what she says, don’t send her money.
Don’t let your sanity get drenched in false promises of paradise. There is an endless supply of beautiful foreign ladies looking for the right man, all you have to do is make yourself available and not get stuck on a single girl you’ve never met.
This is why it is important to meet several women from the same region, because traveling is a big part of discovering your foreign love. You need to configure yourself with options from which to create opportunities.
Where the real sharks swim
The sharks looking to eat you alive are not the foreign ladies you might meet, but the online dating sites and matchmaking agencies that promise to deliver you the girl of your dreams for a small fee of course.
Unfortunately, most sites and agencies are more interested in sucking money out of your pocket than filling your life with love.
Do not join agencies and paid sites that do not offer at least a 30-day money-back guarantee. Compare services and prices for introductions, some companies demand incredibly high prices just for a woman’s email and basic information.
If you choose 2-3 foreign women from a site’s profile options that you find attractive, but the agency doesn’t have your information handy or can’t provide proof that they sent you a message, get your money back immediately! They are most likely paying photo models to hook you up and then switching to real women who are available but you have no interest in meeting.
If a company tries to force or pressure you into signing up for their “romance tour”, leave the site and get your money back. Detecting a good agency is not easy. Some positive signs you can check are customer testimonials, affordable pricing, message delivery validation, and well-maintained websites.
Foreign women at your feet
Now that you know the basics of beating scams, it’s time to meet the foreign women you’re looking for.
The first thing to do is make sure you know the country and the city or cities you will be traveling to. It can become easy to meet really flashy girls from all over the world, but it can be tricky trying to visit the ones you like the most.
Remember not to get sucked into a woman at first. So make sure you know for sure the first city and the country you will be traveling to. Get online, there are great free social sites like MySpace, Hii5, Facebook, etc. where you can meet foreign women. Look for ladies who live close to where you are going and who match your tastes.
Do not waste time with beautiful women but with whom you have nothing in common. There are tons of women to meet and you want to focus on the ones who share the deepest interests with you.
Over the weeks and months, you will meet women who become your friends and introduce you to other women who will become more than your friends. You will meet women who will completely turn you off and you will meet some women who will make your heart stop.
When you have a list of ladies looking forward to your arrival… book a flight. About two weeks before your departure they begin to make the first appointments. If you go for ten days it is recommended to have a minimum of 3 first appointments during the first 4 days. The rest of the time you can spend it with one or two or three girls with whom you get along the most. Or you can continue to fill your days and spend your nights with fresh new dates.
Either way, be sure to have a good time and slow down to smell what makes a foreign culture unique. Enjoy your time with all the women you meet, don’t force a marriage, allow it to happen naturally (and only after spending time together). Follow your dreams boldly and discover your own personal success with a foreign woman. May your love grow beyond borders.
