Friendship bracelets are in fashion. And it’s no surprise; they’re cool, colorful, fun to make, and fun to receive from your best friends. But did you know that they have a long history dating back to the Native Americans of Central America? There are a handful of traditions that come with the craft. These can be considered “rules” in a way, for making and receiving bracelets. Let’s see what we mean.
Make the bracelet so that it falls off
The bracelet should be worn until the thread eventually loosens and falls off the wrist on its own. Having said that; it is important that the bracelet is made in such a way that it can fall off naturally. The best way to do this is to make the bracelet with just yarn and maybe a couple of beads. Avoid materials such as fasteners that prevent the bracelet from loosening and falling off. If used, the bracelet cannot be considered a true friendship bracelet. Wow, who knew?
keep it on
So now we know that a true friendship bracelet has to fall off at some point. Tradition also says that if the wearer removes the bracelet before this time, the friendship is over. Oh! With that, make sure you can commit to keeping the bracelet on before you agree to it. For example; If you have a formal event to attend soon or a family portrait scheduled where Mom will surely want you to take it off, maybe she’ll wait to put it on.
Make sure your wish is granted
A relatively unknown tradition says that when the recipient accepts the bracelet, they are allowed to make a wish. When he falls (on his own, of course) his wish will be granted. And who doesn’t want his wishes to come true? So he puts the scissors away and waits for the bracelet to come off on its own.
sounds so serious
Clearly, you have a choice whether or not to follow these friendship bracelet “rules.” Sounds pretty serious for a piece of handmade jewelry, right? But following them adds to the fun, keeps tradition alive, and celebrates your true friendships.
