It is a minefield ahead.
The path you must take in search of the answer to the question: “How to overcome abandonment?” And how to get your ex back is fraught with many possibilities for going wrong … FATALLY wrong!
That’s why it’s not surprising why so many guys who just got out of a breakup get hurt and crushed even more, and what’s worse … they can often ruin your chances of getting your ex back quickly.
Believe it or not, a lot of the conventional advice on how to move on and get back with your ex isn’t effective, and a lot of the things that actually work are counterintuitive that only a few know about.
You should know … because if it weren’t for these counterintuitive realizations, you wouldn’t be enjoying an 11-year loving marriage.
So what are these steps to overcome abandonment?
Keep reading.
How to overcome abandonment and start getting your ex back Step 1
DON’T … repeat, DON’T contact your ex yet.
Wait about a month or so. During the first few weeks after the breakup, the two of you are at an emotional high point emotionally. Regret, anger, bread, etc. they are filling both of them.
What happens when two angry, hurt, and frustrated people talk? It’s going to be an exchange of bitter and bitter words, believe me.
How to overcome abandonment and start getting your ex back Step 2
Don’t be desperate, clingy, needy, etc. That will only lead to your ex running for the hills … never to come back.
Forget about …
– Bomb them with text messages – Stalk them – Send bouquets of flowers – Call them 1000 times a day
Remember, no one wants a clingy and needy person in their life. Instead, see the next step …
How to overcome abandonment and start getting your ex back Step 3
Work on yourself. Change for the better. Forget trying to change your ex’s opinion, since you have no control over what he thinks, but you have 100% of what you think and do.
And a good way to do it is: date someone else! Dating someone else has many benefits: it increases your worth in the eyes of the opposite sex, takes your mind off the breakup, and gives you the confidence boost you need most.
