Many men who plead for male chastity are recalcitrant and, in short, behave badly just to get ‘punished’.
So the question is…
How to punish a man in chastity?
After all, what can do you do to him?
Why…
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If you tell him that he has to wait longer… then you are giving him more of what you want.
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If you let him orgasm…then you’re giving him what he wants in the moment, even if you will be disappointed later. But let’s be real, it’s not really much of a punishment, is it?
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If you’re in a femdom relationship, you can spank him or give him some other punishment…but then, depending on his preferences, you’re once again giving him more of what he wants. wants.
So what can you do?
Give him what he It is not to wish.
And the good news is that there are a few things you can do, it all depends on how upset you are with him.
They’re all something you’re really not going to like, but one is a little more drastic than the others, and it’s something I’d recommend only in the extreme.
punishment #1
Let’s eliminate the extreme and the less fun first.
It’s just this: give him the key back and refuse to play.
In other words, treat it as you would a child by withdrawing your attention from it.
I guarantee this will get you online very quickly.
If he is in chastity, then the idea of being allowed to be free and just left free will stops him in his tracks.
But because it’s quite ‘unsympathetic’ stuff, I would really do this only if it really went over the top and he just didn’t behave.
I don’t expect my husband to be at my beck and call 24/7 even though we are in a female led relationship even though we practice strict male chastity; goal me do I hope you will recognize and respect the effort it takes to keep it under lock and key. Y happy with him, and accept my authority and obey my rules.
punishment #2
This is the killer, and I can guarantee that when you read what it is, you won’t think it’s punishment at all.
Until you try it on him and see how he reacts.
Then you might think again.
It’s just this: give her a ruined orgasm.
It’s easy: just make sure his hands are restrained so he can’t touch himself and then treat him to a low, sensual and deliciously torturous tease and denial session.
Only this time you are going to let him orgasm… BUT the instant he starts to orgasm, with the first spasm, you let go of his penis and do NOT stimulate him further.
It will buck, moan, moan and beg, but you should NOT touch it.
Now, this is one of the worst things that can happen to a man, because while he is having the post-orgasm comedown, there is NONE of the pleasure normally associated with an orgasm.
You will be devastated, I promise.
I know this from experience, because my husband, John, occasionally has to suffer from ruined orgasms, and he only has one a year.
And if you actually If you want to turn the screws and make it almost unbearable for him, you can give him several ruined orgasms in a row, one after another. I guarantee that by the time your man has had three, four, six, ten ruined orgasms in a row, he’ll have sore balls and be on his best behavior for some considerable time.
Now, if you’re sick and tired of the hype and nonsense you read on the net about male chastity and orgasm denial, and you’re really looking for safe, sane, and realistic information and advice, then it makes sense to get it. of a genuine 24/7 couple living the real lifestyle, isn’t it?
Punishment #3
More recently, as we have transitioned to a female-led relationship and John is bound by the oath of obedience gave me, I have started to whip him if he displeases me or disobeys me.
Now, John isn’t one of those guys who enjoys this, so it’s not a funishment.
I pin him to the bench and then whip him hard and mercilessly to make him understand the error of his ways (a minimum of 36 very strong strokes and no warm-up).
This is perhaps further than some people will want to go, but it works well for us and has definitely improved their overall behavior.
