Do you know what your most attractive feature is? Maybe you think they are your beautiful eyes because you catch us ladies looking at them often. Or maybe it’s the way you dress because you think women appreciate a man with a sense of fashion. You might think it’s those abs you work so hard for every day at the gym. Possibly you think it’s that beautiful smile you have with those perfect white teeth. Well let me tell you something, all of those things are great, but they are not the number one reason that we women are attracted to you…
One of the most attractive things to us is your TRUST! It’s the way you behave when you walk into a room. It’s the way you make eye contact from across the room. It’s the way you don’t show fear when you approach us and strike up a conversation. Essentially, it’s your belief in yourself that shows in your body language.
Please understand that there is a fine line between being confident and acting cocky. Arrogance can be very unattractive, so be careful not to cross that line. Nobody finds that attractive. Remember it’s not what you say, it’s how you say it.
What this means is that no matter how you look, you can still learn to charm a woman with your confidence. She can get over early balding, the few extra pounds, or the fact that she may be vertically challenged. All you have to do is feel good about yourself and maybe learn a few techniques in the art of body language.
We all know that men are visual, but most women are not. Many women recognize that when we get older and are sitting on the porch swing with the man of our dreams it’s not his looks that keep us interested, it’s his character. Appearances may fade, but the makeup of a person’s character is what we are left with in the end. All I can tell you is that you can win us over with more confidence than you ever would with that perfectly sculpted body and it’s that confidence that will keep us close.
So look in the mirror guys. Don’t ignore what you see because there is always room for improvement, but understand that it’s not what you see that really matters. It’s how she exudes that confidence and will win us over almost every time!
And by the way… we’re also nerds but that’s a blog for another day!
