When someone is jealous, their gestures and body language can subconsciously betray them through what we call signs of jealousy. Those signs, if we know how to discern them, can help us a lot in our efforts to have a meaningful and full relationship with the person we dream of.
Showing love or affection, especially to whom we are very attracted to, is not something that is easy for everyone.
Some people may have feelings for a certain person and dream about them almost every night. They know that they should let that particular one know about their deep feeling so that they can know if their feelings are reciprocated or not.
But they just don’t know how to start. It makes them suffer. In fact, being in love without knowing if our love interest shares the same feeling is very tormenting.
Especially for shy guys and girls, saying that is often too hard to do. That fear of rejection always gets in the way of shy people. And getting over it is easier said than done.
But nevertheless, we cannot allow ourselves to continue living in such agony just because of that fear. We should, sooner or later, talk about it or else it could be the biggest regret of our lives.
On the other hand, showing or saying it with no idea if he/she feels the same way about us or not is often too scary! Is there a way to tell if a love interest shares the same sentiment with us? Thank God there is. As? Through the signs of jealousy that they unconsciously show if they are also in love with us.
So what signs of jealousy can we use for that? Let’s look at some of them now.
1. Looking or staring at you when talking to the opposite sex. Sometimes a jealous person may also act like he doesn’t care to see you talking to friends of the opposite sex, but your gut tells you that he’s just pretending to act that way.
2. You find yourself “bumping into” him/her everywhere you go, and it seems like he/she is too curious about your activities and friends.
3. You find that he/she tends to say nasty things about your (close) friends, especially those of the opposite sex.
4. He gets annoyed or “scared” if you tell him that your other friend is attractive when you talk to him.
5. You seem to feel very uncomfortable if you find out that someone else finds you attractive and/or tries to flirt with you.
Those are just some of the signs of jealousy that you can use to guess whether or not your love interest has the same interest in you. Of course, you can use this knowledge for many other purposes you need. To know more about the signs, you can read the article mentioned in the resource box below.
