One minor issue found in the male orgasm denial and male chastity lifestyle is how can single men benefit from them too?
As you probably already know, the two largest groups of people looking for information on male chastity are men and women already in relationships who are looking for information on what male orgasm denial actually entails and how to get started.
And then there’s a smaller but still reasonably large group of young men, often in their late teens or early twenties, who feel their constant arousal and ensuing masturbation habits have gotten out of hand (sorry for the game). of words), and find that it’s draining their energy, reducing their drive to date and find a real partner, and generally having a negative impact on their sex lives as single men.
Their interest in the male chastity lifestyle tends to be skewed towards the fact that it is simply a way to ensure male orgasm denial and control, and give them more energy for other things rather than the usual reasons of enhancing a male. relationship or marriage in a number of different areas
But there is another group that I would like to help with this article: single men who would love to live that lifestyle but are desperate to find a partner who shares the same interests.
At first glance, it’s easy to see why these men feel the situation is hopeless. After all, finding a partner for a romantic relationship is hard enough without the added complication of having to find someone who shares your particular interest in male orgasm denial and living the lifestyle of male chastity.
Even if you do frequent the BDSM scene, you will soon discover, as with almost any other social scene, that you reach a certain age and everyone around you is already in a relationship.
So what’s a single man to do?
Well, my answer may surprise you, and on first reading you’ll probably find it quite scary. But bear with me, and you’ll see that it makes perfect sense.
First, if you’ve read my other articles on the subject, you’ll realize that the key to making it work for both of you is clear, open, and honest communication. That’s why when men (and it’s usually men) ask me how to begin the process of introducing male orgasm denial and the male chastity lifestyle into their relationship, I tell them the most important thing is to be clear. who are you. want of that.
I know this simple and not always easybut there is no sensible alternative or substitute.
And a moment’s thought shows us that it’s really done more difficult because we are introducing something new in an established relationship, and there’s no doubt that it can be both difficult and scary. There’s always the fear that your partner will freak out and think you’re some kind of freak (I’ve never known it to happen to that extent, but I know from my own experience when John introduced him to me that it can be something of a surprise and a shock). shock).
So from that point of view, single men have an easier job, because they are in a perfect position to begin the relationship to the desired outcome of male orgasm denial and a lifestyle of male chastity.
Now I am No suggesting that you change your style of approaching women to one where the first thing out of your mouth is “Hi, me, Fred, and I like being locked in a chastity belt.“. I suspect that while that willpower get results, they will not be what you are looking for.
but what can you do Early is to make sure you openly and honestly communicate your preferences. look, I know This is hard, and before you have this kind of conversation, it’s best if you’ve already been physically intimate with each other. The trick is to subtly play the part and lead her into the lifestyle naturally through your combined actions rather than placing too much importance on it (the more importance YOU place on male chastity and male orgasm denial, the more importance YOU place on male chastity and male orgasm denial). SHE will make them). , which I promised).
And if you’re feeling really brave and want to maximize your chances of success, I wholeheartedly recommend internet dating. don’t laugh. That’s how I met John, and we’re an exhibition success story.
And when I think back, even though John did not openly mention his problem, the signs were there, so I knew that I was not averse to the principles of male chastity and male orgasm denial in practice, even if the theory was wrong. new to me
There is no need and probably no need to post your preferences on your “profile”, but there are plenty of reasons to mention it at an early stage, using any of the numerous strategies I’ve written about in articles and on my Blog.
Also, if you look around you will see that there are numerous niche dating websites where posting your deepest, darkest, and weirdest fantasies on your profile is not only okay, it is. expected of you.
Isn’t internet dating a bit “sad”?
No way.
Because the beauty of internet dating is that you can make a shopping list, and there is absolutely No reason on Earth not to ask for what you want and to reject anyone who does not give it to you. You do not have to settle for starting a relationship that does not offer you exactly Whatever you want.
To sum up
For some men, and you might be one of them, male chastity and male orgasm denial is a burning desire that just won’t go away. You can zoom them out from time to time and they will disappear into the background for a while.
But they always come back. And they always will.
You have the right to want what you want, and you have the perfect right to accept into your life only those who give it to you. Of course, they are free to decline and choose someone else, but that’s fine too.
The point is, just by being clear, open, and honest about your wishes. early in your new relationship you will know if you have chances to live your dream before you spend a lot of time and emotional energy getting close to someone who doesn’t want what you want in the long run.
