Hello! I am going to share with you some of the well-known courtship tips. Some may agree, some may not, but I suggest you check out these tips and who knows, maybe you’ll learn a thing or two.
1. Make a good impression
Making an impression means not showing interest the first time you meet the person. Most of the time, when a guy meets the girl of his dreams, they immediately give up and show signs of affection. Sometimes it pays to contain what you feel and be a little mysterious.
2. Assistance
Presence! Presence! Presence! I can’t emphasize it more. Just make sure that the girl you are courting knows that you are always there for her. You can do this by: (a) taking her home, (b) talking to her at least once a day, the more you talk the better her chances, (c) text her, just be sure to ask outright. finished questions, those that cannot be answered simply with a yes, no, okay or K.
3. Listen well and listen well
This is really important. By listening, you’ll get the juiciest information you’ll ever need. It’s where you’ll learn her likes and dislikes, hobbies and interests, what makes her happy or sad, and it’s by knowing these little details that your courtship becomes a success. Most of us overlook this and fall short of expectations.
4. Be creative
Be creative your way. For example, if all your suitors bring you expensive gifts, dozens of flowers and imported chocolates, offer something different like a simple chocolate nut plus your time, effort, consideration and much more.
5. Be friendly, make friends with everyone
When you are courting someone, you are not only courting one person, but you should also consider everyone around her such as her friends, office mates, family members, and especially her best friend. These people are important to her. They have a great influence on her. By being around them and letting them know more about you, she can gain the assurance that you will nod in her favor.
6. Make her laugh
Humor “breaks the ice” and can help you get to know each other more easily. When making her laugh, proceed with caution. Don’t tell jokes that are offensive or get involved in topics that might make her feel offended.
7. Never say “Can I woo you?” This is a big no-no. He takes away the mystery and excitement of courtship. You will immediately lose 50% of your chances. Look, here’s the thing, if a girl likes you, that’s fine and she might say “yes”, but if she doesn’t, that’s when you miss your chances.
8. Be honest and sincere
Be honest with yourself, don’t be someone you’re not, just be yourself. The next thing is to be honest with your intentions. By combining these two qualities, you can never go wrong, especially when you are already proposing.
9. Timing is everything
During courtship, knowing when to do things is very important. It’s very important, from simply knowing when to pitch a joke to more difficult planning of when to pitch. Knowing when the time is right is a personal decision. This is done after evaluating yourself and the girl you are courting. Surely you will know if the time is right. You just have to trust your instincts.
10. Patience is a virtue
Being patient is a quality that is taken for granted today. In courtship, patience is always the name of the game, which is why the courtship phase often spans weeks or even months. Take your time, there are no shortcuts. All good things come to those who wait.
There you go. I hope you have enjoyed reading.
Always live a wonderful life!
